Monthly Archives: July 2012

Nine Steps To Becoming A Writer

Posted on July 31, 2012 by chichikir

Step 1: Start with an Idea. Step 2: Draw out a Plan- theme, characters, plot. Step 3: Read and Research (if necessary). Step 4: Start Writing (actual writing process). Step 5: Keep on Writing until you Finish the first draft. … Continue reading →

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Old Habits Are Hard To Break

Posted on July 30, 2012 by chichikir

Horace Mann wrote: “Habits are like a cable. We weave a strand of it everyday and soon it cannot be broken.” When I was a little girl I had this habit of biting my nails. I don’t have a clue … Continue reading →

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Three Steps To More Effective Description

Posted on July 29, 2012 by chichikir

E. B. White, in the book The Elements of Style, writes: Use definite, specific, concrete language. The surest way to arouse and hold the reader’s attention is to use words that are precise, crystal-clear and real so that the reader … Continue reading →

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Head Heart Hand Health

Posted on July 27, 2012 by chichikir

When I was in junior high, grade eight to be exact, together with the students in the higher grades we formed our own 4-H club under the leadership of our biology teacher. As you may know, the 4-Hs stand for … Continue reading →

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You Don’t Understand

Posted on July 26, 2012 by chichikir

Have you noticed how while talking to some people they look spaced out, and you get the feeling that they are not listening to a word you’re saying? They don’t even look at you when you’re talking. I believe communication … Continue reading →

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What We Don’t Do

Posted on July 24, 2012 by chichikir

I feel that I am a reserved person by nature. Ninety-nine percent of the time I refrain from saying what I wish to say to people. I have always been shy and still am. Even though the impression I leave … Continue reading →

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My Thoughts And Prayers

Posted on July 22, 2012 by chichikir

It’s early morning here in Montreal. The sun hasn’t come out yet. I didn’t sleep well last night and my head hurts a bit. I switch on my netbook. The internet is full of stories of the shooting at the … Continue reading →

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What Matters Most

Posted on July 20, 2012 by chichikir

Years ago, when I was teaching in Dubai, a colleague of mine told me that she never went shopping alone and always preferred to shop with her older sister. She said, “When I am with my sister and I want … Continue reading →

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I’ve Lost The Magic

Posted on July 19, 2012 by chichikir

Can someone please tell me how to read a book and enjoy the story without being analytical about it? I remember there was a time in my life when I read a book, any book or story and in the … Continue reading →

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Keeping Promises

Posted on July 18, 2012 by chichikir

Man is by nature a social animal. In fact society is based on the links and the relationships between people. At a very young age we learn to adapt to our surroundings to get along with the people around us. … Continue reading →

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